Formal versus informal disability support

What’s the difference, and which is right for you?

When you need support to live independently and stay connected to your community, it can be hard to know where to start. One of the most common questions people ask is: what’s the difference between informal support and paid support workers?

The answer will be different for everyone. Some people rely mostly on family and friends, while others choose to use funded supports through the NDIS or privately funded services. Many people use a combination of both.

In this guide, we explain the difference between informal supports and support workers, what each can help with, and how to decide what’s right for you.

Informal Support

Informal support is unpaid support provided by people already in your life. This may include:

  • ‍Family members

  • Friends

  • Neighbours

  • Volunteers

  • Community networks

‍Informal supports often help with day-to-day needs, emotional support and practical assistance that helps maintain wellbeing and independence.

Examples of informal support may include:

  • ‍Helping with meals or household tasks

  • Driving you to appointments

  • Providing companionship and emotional support

  • Assisting with reminders or routines

  • Helping you stay socially connected

‍For some families, informal support can become a significant caring role over time.

Financial and practical support for carers

‍If someone provides regular or ongoing care, they may be eligible for the Australian Government’s Carer Payment or other supports.

‍You can learn more through:

Support Workers

‍Support workers are paid professionals trained or experienced in providing disability support services.

Support workers may work:

  • ‍Through a registered provider - some providers are registered and charities like estara, others will be privately-owned or unregistered organisations

  • As independent support workers

  • Across a range of support settings, including in-home and community support

Depending on your needs and funding, support workers can provide support from a few hours a week through to 24-hour support.

‍The role of a support worker is not just to “do things for you”, but to support you to build skills, increase independence and live life the way you choose.

‍What can a support worker help with?

‍Support workers will typically engage in a wider range of supports and services, including:

  • ‍ Personal care and daily living activities

  • ‍ Cooking, cleaning and household tasks

  • ‍Assistance with showering, dressing and grooming

  • ‍Travel and access to community activities and services, including recreational programs, doctors/medical or other appointments

  • ‍Support with meetings, study and getting to work

  • Assistance with shopping (e.g., groceries and general shopping)

‍Some examples of more specialised supports may include:

  • Assistance with urinary drainage

  • ‍Pressure injury management

  • ‍Simple skin care management

  • ‍Bowel routine assistance

What’s the difference between informal support and paid support?

‍ There can sometimes be overlap between the two. Both informal support people and support workers may assist with:

  • ‍Emotional support

  • Medication reminders

  • Social connection

  • Attending appointments

However, paid support workers generally provide:

  • ‍ More structured and consistent support

  • Specialist knowledge and training

  • Support linked to personal goals and capacity building

  • Flexible support based on changing needs

  • Access to a wider range of services and community participation

There is no one-size-fits-all answer. Some people prefer support primarily from family and friends. Others may want the independence and flexibility that comes from using paid support workers. Many people choose a combination of both.

‍Things you may want to consider include:

  • Your current support network

  • The type and complexity of support you need

  • Your goals and independence

  • The impact on family or carers

  • Whether you have NDIS funding available

‍Having open conversations with family, carers and providers can help you work out what support arrangement feels right for you.

If you think you may need some paid support, check out our ‘Supported Independent Living’ page.

‍Finding the right disability support provider

Choosing the right support provider is an important step. A good provider should work alongside you, understand your goals and provide support that fits your life.

Not sure where to start? Check out our ‘Questions to ask when choosing your disability providers’ page.

‍At estara, we support people living with spinal cord injury, neurological conditions and related disability through connected supports designed around individual needs and goals.

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